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What are the best and safest baby pacifiers? – Part 5

Saturday, October 30th, 2010
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When choosing the best and safest pacifier for your child, the first thing you will want to do is find the product that works best with the individual child itself. If the baby keeps throwing the pacifier out and screaming bloody murder chances are it isn’t giving the soothing sensation the products are known for. Try a few sizes and brands to match up the babies mouth to the perfect tool.

Pacifiers made of one piece are the safest to be poking into your kids head. If the nipple on the pacifier is not secure to the base then you’ve got a choking hazard. Also avoid pacifiers with liquids and gels inside the nipple, because what starts out as a cool accessory turns ugly quick when the fluid leaks out.

Pacifiers are recommended to help prevent SIDS at bedtime. Therefore, even with all the horror stories you may have heard from mothers about weening the child from the item might be something to more or less ignore. With that said, if you choose to use a pacifier, actually buy a real one and do not give the kid a bottle nipple or piece of wood to suck on. There are not only splinters to consider, but once again a choking hazard. In case the first two warnings did not sink in: choking is bad. The safest pacifiers to avoid choking are at least 1.5 inches across.

Other considerations are the shield around the pacifier, to avoid rashes you probably want a vented one. On top of that one may also consider brightly colored options to be best, since pacifiers always tend to get dropped and lost in dark vehicle crevices. Of course once a pacifier is dropped into one of those holes where french fries also go to decompose, it i best to clean it because a clean pacifier is a safe pacifier.


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Proper use and abuses of baby pacifiers – Part 1

Wednesday, August 18th, 2010
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Pacifiers are an excellent tool to help quench a baby’s need to suck. Studies have shown that babies begin sucking their thumbs while in utero. If a child has a need to suck beyond feedings, a pacifier will help quiet this need. But like any other piece of child care equipment there are some safety facts that all parents and caregivers should be aware of. Pacifiers should be used after or in between feedings, and never as a delay or replacement for a meal.

The only safe sort of pacifier is a one piece model with a soft rubber nipple. Two piece models can come apart and present a choking hazard. The pacifier shield should be atleast 1.25 inches across to prevent the baby from taking the entire pacifier into his mouth. The shield should be constructed of firm plastic and have air holes. Pacifiers also tend to have age recommendations on them, which pertain to the size of the pacifier. Younger babies to six months have one size, older children another. It’s wise to follow the manufacturer’s guidelines for use. Also a flattened nipple design will have less of an impact on developing teeth, rather than a cherry or ball’ shaped nipple. Trusted manufacturers of baby items tend to be best. Choose a well known company rather than one never heard of. Also spend a bit more to make sure you’re getting a quality baby item.

Many babies are incapable of replacing a pacifier once it falls out. Some might be tempted to put them on a cord or string. NEVER, place a cord or string on a pacifer, or tie it to the side of the crib, as this provides a very real danger of the baby getting caught up in the cord and being strangled.

Never use a bottle top in place of a pacifier. This is highly dangerous, as the two pieces come apart and both could fit into a child’s mouth and close their airway.

A pacifier must be checked often for wear and tear, and if the rubber appears crackled or discoloured or very pliant to the touch, odds are, a replacement pacifier is required. This is especially important, when a child starts teething. They will often try to sooth their aching gums on the nipple. This is a good time to provide a cool teething ring. They’re made of stronger plastic and are specifically made for this sort of wear.

Often times new parents will sterilize a pacifier when it drops to the floor. While this is good practice for a newborn, the boiling will cause the rubber to break down after time, weakening it. Rinsing the pacifier with regular hot tap water, would be enough to clean it.

Never flavour a pacifier with honey or any other sort of sweet. This can cause decay to new teeth, not to mention honey can be a threat for botulism to youngsters which can be fatal.

Give a child a pacifier only if they want it. Don’t give one automatically. Also try to break them of the habit at about one year of age. It’s easier now, than at two or three. A child could be offered a more mature piece of equipment in return for the pacifier, like a tooth brush. Children like to feel grown up and this will help motivate them to give up the pacifier. Always praise them and tell them how grown up they are, when they give it up, or opt not to use it.

A pacifier is an excellent tool for a parent to help soothe their baby, so long as these safety tips are observed.


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Should parental classes on toddler behavior be offered during pregnancy?

Sunday, August 15th, 2010

Pregnancy is a time of great change in a couple’s life. There are many things to prepare for, including learning to cope with the pregnancy itself, childbirth, breastfeeding, and infant care. Hours can be spent concentrating on these important things, so sparing expectant parents the additional strain of what will face them in two years’ time is probably best.

Toddler behavior is complex, and dealing with these tiny people on a daily basis is exhausting. One day they will love peas. The next day they throw them at you. A bump on the head will results in giggles one minute, or streams of tears the next. Why? Who knows. Predicting their actions is virtually impossible. And chances are once you begin to get things figured out, they will change.

Toddlerhood comes after parents have been parents for a couple years. This is critical. By this time parents have developed the patience that is necessary to parent a toddler. This patience will gradually develop through dealing with your toddler daily, and cannot be taught in a class. Established parents also tend to worry less than new parents.

Parents of babies need an entirely different base of knowledge than parents of toddlers. Pregnancy should focus on learning how to cope with more impending issues than toilet-training, sibling-jealousy, and pacifier-weaning. Frankly, the prospect of becoming new parents will be less frightening that way.

Additionally, every toddler is different. Some are very strong-willed and spirited, and need extra patience and special guidance. Others are passive, or more laid back and will require an entirely different set of parenting skills. Unfortunately it is impossible to know before they are born, into which category your toddler will fall. As your baby develops, their personality will begin to emerge. This is the time at which parenting classes should be considered. In many instances, they will prove to be unnecessary.

I tend to be a ‘cross that bridge when we come to it’ kind of person. Parental classes on toddler behavior should be offered to parents of toddlers (perhaps along with a little therapy or free drinks). Offering them to well-intended expectant parents is just cruel.


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Best baby gifts for new mothers

Sunday, June 13th, 2010
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With having had a dozen children, I have been to many of my own baby showers! I’ve received many at times too many of the common items from basic layettes, receiving blankets, diapers, baby lotions and soaps. Finding unique baby gifts can be difficult but I try to find gift that I know others would not buy or make, and know that the personalized baby gifts generally make the best new baby gifts.

Some ideas that will work for both unique gifts for a baby boy or a baby girl are the following:

*PERSONALIZED CARDS – These can be handmade or found easily doing an internet search, for personalized baby announcements or personalized thank you notes. Since moms will have to send thank you notes, these make an ideas gift. If a shower is given after the baby is born, including the stats of the baby makes it even more personal.

*BABY BLANKETS Even for the person who does not sew these can be personally made. Do an internet search for “No Sew Baby Fleece Blankets”. If you can sew, making a baby quilt is a wonderful keepsake. There are many now who have embroidery sewing machines and to be able to put the baby’s name in the corner of the blanket adds the unique touch.

*PERSONALIZED BABY PACIFIERS – Is the baby you want to give a gift for going to be in daycare or a church nursery? Personalized baby pacifiers are a great gift that helps distinguish whose is whose.

*BABY CARRIERS AND SLINGS are another hot baby item many moms like. This can be a little more personal what type a mom would want, so checking with the mom before buying or give her a gift card to a place that carries these specifically.

*BABY DIAPERS are a very broad gift. It’s nice to have some disposables for going out, yet many moms are “going green” and are going back to cloth diapers. There are so many varieties of cloth diapers, from flat folds of Birdseye cotton, to prefolded and formed diapers. In doing an internet search you will even find easy diaper patterns for sewing your own. If you know the nursery colors or baby theme, what a unique gift you can make!

*OTHER PERSONALIZED GIFTS – So many items now can be personalized that also make unique gifts for the new mom: baby bibs, t-shirts or onesies, blankets, baby towels, rocking chairs with the baby’s name on the back, baby spoons, etc.

Gift registries are wonderful to help prevent duplicates, but it still seems to happen anyway if an item is not removed from the registry. Gift cards are an option for baby stores and boutiques, yet it does take out the personalization from the giver. When thinking of a gift for a new mom, think of things that she probably will not receive that has a little more touch of uniqueness and shows more of the giver’s heart. These will be the treasured items kept for many years to come.

Are pacifiers good for babies?

Wednesday, April 7th, 2010
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Pacifiers for many babies mean safety objects. They are there to sooth their tender gums while teething, to come them down when upset, to protect them while mom and dad are away.

Even though over decades we were told not to give our babies pacifiers we continue to. Dentists are worried that they cause many dental problems later on. Some studies link them to the ear infections. But the newest study actually proves them useful other than to secure child’s anxieties.

It has been proved that children who used pacifiers were less likely to have SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome). Next to following all of the guide lines for preventing SIDS like (putting your baby to sleep on it’s back, removing all plush bedding, not overdressing and overheating your baby) you should give your baby a pacifier which should help with breathing. The suction keeps baby’s alert and prevents them from stooping to breath.

It is recommended for breastfed babies to first get use to nursing before offering them a pacifier. Always check pacifiers to make sure there are no loose parts or robber so that you can prevent a potential chocking hazard. Make sure the size of the pacifier is appropriate for your child’s age.

Of course you shouldn’t let your child have a pacifier for years. Some kids are easier to wean than others. But right around the first birthday would be the right time to start weaning. Around that time the SIDS risk is gone, and your child may be ready to give up its little friend to a nice pacifier fairy.

So don’t worry too much about your baby having a pacifier. They are not all that bad after all. Just don’t let them over do it after they reach some years. After all we still need to think about those pearly whites.


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